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Toby Whittington provides counselling, coaching and sexological services to help you navigate challenges in your life including in your career, relationships and identity. So you can gain a more accepting understanding of yourself, have better relationships with others and make a more positive impact in the world.

Counselling to Help Navigate Challenging Life Stages

Gain deeper understanding and acceptance of who you are, to better navigate difficulties in your life:

  • Be heard & understood from a non-judgmental perspective

  • Improve your self-image, identity & self-belief

  • Gain deeper personal insight, understanding & self-compassion

  • Identify, process & release stored emotions

  • Process and release past & current trauma

  • Learn embodiment, breath work & emotional regulation skills

  • Develop strategies for navigating day-to-day issues

  • Gain personal insight from reframing & seeing things from different perspectives

  • Develop self-loving beliefs, behaviours & practices

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Relationship Counselling, Sexology & Lifestyle Coaching

Learn the tools and skills to improve and develop your romantic, intimate and sexual relationships.

  • Effective communication

  • Navigating attachment styles

  • Empathy & emotional intelligence

  • Sensual, erotic & intimate love languages

  • Intimacy skills & techniques

  • Embodiment, breath work & emotional regulation

  • Navigating day-to-day relationship issues

  • Sexual dysfunction & dissatisfaction

  • Open relationships, non-monogamy & polyamory

  • Mismatched desires & libido

  • Sex at a mature age

  • Self-pleasure and exploration

  • Sex education & sexual health

Individual session - 90 minutes: AUD $150.00 | Couples session - 90 minutes: AUD $180.00

Unless otherwise arranged on a case by case basis, all my coaching and counselling sessions are conducted online via Google Meet. In-person and home visits available by negotiation.

Schedule a free 15 minute discovery call to connect and see if we are good fit to work together.

I am a sex-positive, non-judgmental, person-centred and trauma-informed practitioner. I believe having a happy healthy sex life is a human right and adhere to the Australian Counselling Association and World Association for Sexual Health codes of ethical practice. Being sex-positive means I have and promote a positive healthy attitude towards sex and sexual expression, even if I do not wish to part take in those expressions myself, and so long as they are performed between consenting adults. I am an inclusive practitioner and work with all genders and sexualities. I am kink aware, queer inclusive, and have lived experience with monogamous, ethically non-monogamous, and polyamorous relationship dynamics.

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